bikin racket..

Cerita nya minggu ini anak K2 class bikin racket untuk art nya..sebenarnya gampang ajah sehh..  menyambung roll tissu buat jadi sticknya, trus menggambar sendiri net nya di karton yang sudah di gunting mirip racket.

Ternyata, itu ga semudah yang kita pikirkan, buat mereka itu agak sedikit menantang hehe.. ternyata menyambung roll tissu itu lumayan susah juga.. , ntar sudah tersambung.. tapi saat mereka mencoba memainkan nya.. lepas lagi..






Their strong effort makes me so enthusiastic take this pic.. look so excited and so seriuos hehehe

They are growing..

Yupp.. here I am.. !
Nowadays, I teach in K2 level. Melihat anak2 K2 sekarang yang sudah besar besar dan merasa Senior dibanding yang lain jadi teringat waktu mereka masih baby.
Oppss.. bukan nya saya sok tau.. tapi that's right I knew some of them when they were so small.. heheh.

First time,  when I joined with TK.MP K.Gdg on April 2009.I'm placed in Toddler  class. Then on next academic year on July 2009 , I'm promoted to PG level with  some students, then on Next year I teach on K1 and now K2.

So, I can say..some of my students on K2 level now..always with me..start from Toddler class, I've no idea.. do I follow them or they follow me? hehe.

One thing, that I can say is: It's a wonderful thing to see their growing.. start from a little one.. who always need their Mommy / nanny at class..and cried when he/she realized about teachers and mom/nanny's tricks.
'Sstt..bentar yah.. mami/sus mau ke toilet'. I remember some parents/ nanny did it hehe.

Michi and Irene .. yang ..till the end of Toddler class still crying if their nanny left.
But now, they are very independent and also talkative haha 

Michelle..mmm..a little artist..who likes acting 'crying' on PG class..
I remember, One day I ask Michelle 'why do u always cry Chell?'
Michelle: Khan acting miss..! Biar mami bisa masuk  kelas..
Me: Do you think this class for Moms..?
Michelle yang dengan lemas menggeleng2 " no miss.. buat anak-anak"
Me: OK..! I don't  want to see your acting anymore.. or do you wanna be an artist?
Michelle: yes.. miss
Me: oohh... pls, don't act here because you  disturb your friends and me.. but you may act on TV..ok!
dan setelah dia selesai dengan actingnya dia beralih dengan alasan lain.." Miss.. aku pusing"
But now..she has been a nice girl and care with others..

Eliot: yang sangat pemalu dan grogian.. kalo di suruh nyanyi ke depan.. maka tanngan nya akan 'bergerilya' di leher miss nya, dan kalo ada performance we have to make sure that his parents are not coming haha..but now.. He looks very confident in every performance.

Marvin..anak yang sangat keras, yang tidak pernah 'say sorry'. Sekarang sudah terlihat sangat bertanggung jawab.

Noah who likes to follow his favorite  friends..but now..he looks wise to give solution about his friends problem and sometime make a joke and try to make his friends laugh with his act..
 Gwen.. yang sangat pendiam.. dan sangat tertutup.. sekarang dia sudah mau tiba-tiba cerita di kelas tanpa di tanya dulu.. yahh walopun dia ga secerewet yang lain..heheh

Denise.. who can't control her hands since sometimes hit others without any reason..Now.. I can see , she never grab something anymore, but always ask first. heheh.. tapi masih tetap tomboy..

Olin..yang suka muntah kalo nangis..and agak sedikit gagap kalo ngomong..dan juga paling sering ada conflik dengan Michi and Michelle..
Hmm.. sekarang.. mereka uda paling kompak dan mengerti satu sama lain.Dan Olin ngomongnya sudah sangat lancar bahkan bisa di bilang dia agak cepat membaca.

Jordan.. anak yang sangat aktif, keras dan selalu pengen menang sendiri . I remember , He scratched me,till bleeding when he didn't want to accept the consequences to responsible of his done.
But now, He is the one who has strong self responsibility , care with others and very smart.
One day, I show my hand to Jordan " Jordan..! do you still remember you ever scratched me?"
Jordan dengan perasaan bersalah said " Yes..miss... ! sorry yaa.." then kiss my hand ... so sweet ..! hehe

Besides their character, I like to see their growing in language like vocabularies..I still remember.. some of them are talking each other with baby talk.. which, no one can understand about their taliking except their self haha. And also their physical growing..so... fast...
Sometime I realized they are grow up.. when I saw they wear a new clothes..

Now...all of us at K2 level..
They keep growing.H
ow about me..? I have no idea.. But I know, when they are growing up,  my point of view about them also changes. I have to up grade my skill how treat them. And everyone knows that only By God grace and  God Wisdom I can do it.

 One thing that I realized deep.. deep down in my heart is I love them... more and more..!

mandarin time

I'm very  excited to learn new language. I always dream,one day I can speak many  languages yahh besides Indonesian and Bataks heheh .Especially French., I hope one day can go there .. hahaha...( one of my wishes).  In my senior high school I learned French and Germany languages as an extracurricular. I love it, but unfortunately just 2 years and I just remember some vocabularies such as  greetings, numbers and some pronoun. Yah,,, lack of practice make me forgot it. But now.. in my class.. I have one chance to learn other language  'mandarin'. It also  a nice thing , which I can learn from simple vocabularies and sentences.

In K'2 class, I always join with those kids to learn mandarin for helping Laoshi to remind kids to keep focus on laoshi, so it helps me to learn  mandarin also  heheheh...So When I seem very excited to learn Mandarin.. , so do all the kids.

Greeting time

It's greeting time , it's time That everyone loves. It's time  to share the story, discuss 'today's problem', and our term theme, calendar, reading books and me  as a teacher also love this session. Because all kids still excited, n full of spirit to tell about their opinion. I always spend more time in this session than the other time.We are free to share our stories, and discuss our today's topic seriously and fun. Just like friends..hehehe.
And the condition will be change when we are in Group time.. haha..! we are in 'heavy' discussion  as a student and teacher..

Yepp.. we have to.. ! as a K2 student.. they are expected to be more concentrate..in lesson.. and we got it in Group Time.

So.. keep enjoying all your time kids...

cerita lama ... asyiknya wisata alam

Libur panjang biasanya aku habiskan dengan pulang kampung ke medan.Tapi kali ini aku  jalan - jalan sama teman2 yang juga senang dengan wisata pulau. Dari dulu saya memang senang bangat dengan wisata alam. Saya tidak tahu  apa karena saya berasal dari desa yang suasana alamnya masih sangat segar. Atau emang aku yang suka dengan wisata menantang..?   Kesenangan akan wisata alam ini sudah saya lakukan sejak SMP.

Dulu waktu saya masih kelas 2 SMP  saya pernah ikut kakak2kelas  jalan-jalan ke Bakara (Danau Toba) yang ikut itu wanita semua dan yang paling hebat nya kami dulu jalan kaki. Saya masih ingat kami semua dulu pergi dari rumah saya dan mama aku nyiapin bekal buat kami semua. Thx,, ya mom..! Itu semua gratis lohh. 

Perjalanan kami mulai pukul 07.00 wib  pagi dari rumah. Setelah berjalan kira - kira 2 jam kami sampai di pinggir bukit. Dan kami lihat ke bawah  pemandangan yang sangat indah.. Sungai yang mengalir ke Danau toba kelihatan seperti Ular yang sangat panjang dengan suara airnya yang sangat kencan.. hmm. Kami sudah tidak sabar ingin segera sampai di Danau Toba. Karena pemandangan yang sangat bagus. Saya masih ingat pemandangan itu "seperti lukisan 2 yang di kalender itu lohh mak" kata ku waktu itu sama mamanya aku.Yup.. tapi itu benar, beda kalau kita melihatnya setelah di bawah. Jauh lebih indah kalau dari atas..( ahh sayang bangat ya.. fotonya2nya uda ga taw di mana)

Kami mulai menuruni bukit itu. Aku pikir semudah yang kelihatan dari atas.. tapi... tidakk!! jalan licin , penuh semak dan berbatu - batu yang besar. Wuiihhh... benar - benar , gak nyangka.. /Aku masih ingat ada teman yang nangis bahkan ada yang pingsan juga..Tapi setelah 3 jam akhirnya  kami berhasil menuruni bukit.Berhasil menuruni bukit bukan berarti kita sudah sampai di Danau Toba.. Belum..!!!  kami harus lanjut berjalan melewati sawah -sawah dan menyebrangi sungai yang kami lihat dari atas tadi. Dan ternyata sungainya lebar dan kami harus menyebrangi pakai jembatan gantung...'Makkk' seramm banget. Aku masih ingat ada teman yang merangkak karena takutnya hihihi.

 Akhirnya , pukul 1 siang kami sampai di pinggir  danau Toba. Kami cari tempat yang teduh , dan makan siang di sana. Setelah itu kami mandi - mandi di danau Toba.

Itu pengalaman adventure pertama aku tanpa orangtua.. Seru..dan menegangkan hehehe.

Waktu SMA juga pernah sama teman - teman satu komplek jalan2 ke Sembahe. Perjalanan nya seh biasa aja tapi perjuangan kita kesana yang seru  heheh. Anak - anak satu komplek (Gang Turi II) termasuk saya yang kos di rumah salah satu keluarga sejak kelas  1 SMA  adalah anak2 yang sangat di perhatikan sekali sama orang tua. Jadi pasti sangat sulit sekali untk mendapat izin pergi jalan - jalan .

Jadi kita putuskan untuk pergi ke Sembahe tanpa permisi atau memberitahukan orangtua. Dengan semangat '45 kita pergi sendiri2 dan berkumpul di suatu tempat.
Tapi memang dasar sial ya di perjalanan mobil kami menabrak tiang pembatas jalan yang mengakibatkan salah satu teman kami yang naik di atas mobil jatuh dan parahnya lagi tangannya patah.

Wuiiihhh.. kita semua bingung dan tidak tau harus berbuat apa, sampai akhirnya si supir berkata kalau dia akan bertanggung jawab dan akan membawa dia berobat ke patah tulang.Akhirnya  salah satu teman kami menelpon orangtuanya dengan ketentuan tidak boleh memberitahukan tentang rencana jalan jalan kami.

Rencana jalan2 kami gagal sudah.Dan kami tetap merahasiakan kepada orangtua kami kalau kami semua terlibat. hihi. Di rumah, oppung saya bercerita tentang teman kami yang jatuh dan patah tulang ini ( Daniel) karena oppung juga ikut menjenguk.
Oppung: "Ta.. tau gak, si Daniel patah tangan nya , katanya jatuh dari mobil mau jalan - jalan ke brastagi."
Aku : " iya.. pung ?.." ( Dengan ekspresi terkejut )
Oppung : Emanglah panjang kali kakinya si Daniel itu..., dia juga maw pergi ga permisi dulu sama mamak nya. Jangan kayak gitu kalian ya...'
Waktu oppung berkata seperti itu kaki aku sama Icha dan K'paulina ( yang juga ikut) sudah tendang2an di bawah meja makan  dan kita juga  liat2an.

Dan cerita kalau jatuh nya Daniel itu  ada hubungan nya dengan hampir semua anak2 gang turi II  tidak  ada yang tau.selain kami.. hmmm.....

 Waktu kuliah juga pernah..saya  bareng - bareng anak kos ( Acosta ) pergi naik gunung ke Sinabung.
 Perjalanan kali ini di dominasi para cewek2 perkasa hehe...kita seh berangkatnya semangat 45. Kita mulai naik gunungnya jam 1 salam.. kata para abang2 yang nemanin naik biar bisa melihat sun rise.Perjalanan nya tidak seperti yang kami duga.. ternyata  kami melewati hutan2 yang gelap ,lembab dan licin. Kadang ada horornya juga..tiba2 kita cium bau melati..wuihh... trus pemandu nya bilang 'ga pa pa ko'.
Medan yang paling parah itu adalah batu cadas..di mana tingkat kemiringannya itu 70 derajat sejauh 100 meter.. itu sudah hampir sampai di puncak..beberapa teman sudah mulai lemas.. n minta pulang gak.. usah nyampai puncak. Tapi dasar abang2nya gak kehabisan akal mereka bilang" ayo..ayo cepat dia atas adda tukang bakso dan jual bandrek" ntah kenap bayangin itu aja bisa bikin semangat lagi.. walau sebenernya itu boong. Akhinya kita sampai juga di puncak pukul 06.00.. itu mahh uda gak sun rise.

"hhmmhhh...lega rasanya setelah nyampai di puncak sinabung" Pemandangan yang sangat menakjubkan dari atas. Ada danau lau Kawar yang berkilau karena sinar matahari. Rumah2 penduduk yang seperti kotak2 korek api . Keliatan seperti maze yang sangat besar. dan ternyata di puncak Sianabung itu bukan lah pohon2 seperti yang kita bayangkan kalo melihat dari bawah, tapi lapangan yang sangat luas dengan batu2 cadas licin , besar dan ditumbuhi rumput2,.. jadi seperti lapangan bola yang sangat luas. Dan di situ juga ada kawah yang sangat besar dan dalam .. dan itu masih aktif. Terbuti dari asap - asap belerang yang masih mengepul.

all abt love

Your love is sweeter than chocolate.
I miss you with all my heart.
My love for you is endless.
You make my heart flutter.
Kissing you is like dying and going to Heaven.
You make my heart smile.
When we're apart, I can't stop thinking about you.
Your love is nectar for my hungry heart.
I'll love you until the end of time.
You've given my heart wings and taught it how to fly

Love is like water. We can fall in it. We can drown in it.
And we can't live without it.


Don't find love, let it find you. That's why it's called
falling in love. You don't force anything, you just fall

When I saw you, I feel in love. And you smiled
because you knew.

You will never know true happiness
until you have truly loved,
and you will never understand
what pain really is
until you have lost it.

Love is the master key that opens
the gates to happiness.

klik and klik at Graduation Day '2011'

klik and klik at Graduation Day '2011

Sometimes, I ask my friend by sms 'Have you slept?'. It means that I'm lonely, (yup... even in  much of my time i spend with having fun with my students and friends...but, still.. I 'am a human being) and need someone to talk privately but freely. When he/she said 'not yet!', then we will enjoy our sharing and talking.But sometimes , at my unlucky time, they said ' not yet, but ..I'm still busy and have something to do. One day , I found my self thought...and asked  ...'How about God?' ' will God say.. : sory.. girl I'm busy!'
Then ... I try...
...........
Me: God..,Have you slept..?
God: No...!
me: So, do You have time to talk with me?
God: (While smiling)Girl...Do you know? I keep waiting for you to ask me like that ?
me: are You sure? (sedikit malu..)
God.. I'm sorry i often forget You, because I think.., that my friend will be more care to me and give me fast answer , if I shared and asked them. But you know sometimes i also get disappointed  with them
God: OK.. I know.. , I told you never hope for human, you could get bitter and disappoint. So, now.. what do you want to talk with Me?
me: Hmmmm(..........)
(re-write from my diary..)
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Yup.. that's me last years.....Hoping so much for human, but now..I know..I have my Almighty God.. who is caring and watching me , in my every single day , and step.

Yesus..naik ke Surga

This week, We spend our time to practice dance  and review our lessons. At Bible time, I asked all the children to review the B. Story and  tell one story  in front of others.
Ok.. here we go.. I started to tell one story about '5 roti dan 2 ikan' Then.. I choose Jordan.
Jordan:Teman-teman aku mau cerita Nabi Nuh..( He could tell that story completely).
Elliot ; Aku mau cerita tentang Yesus bangkit. Yesus.. mati di salibkan trus di kubur lalu naik ke Surga.
Michele: Elliot, .kenapa seh Yesus naik ke Surga?
Elliot: Ia,,,.. karena.. Yesus.. dasyat...!
Marvin: nggak, buat nyediain tempat bagi kita di Surga.
Me: Iya...tempat bagi kita Yang mau percaya dan taat sama Tuhan Yesus.
Jordan: Yesus.. naik ke Sorga naik lift ya.. sambil ngeliatin Marvin..
Marvin: nggak, naik tangga...
Michi: pake wings ya..?truss.. terbang...
(Aku yang sudah nahan2 ketawa dari tadi.. mw ngejelasin..untung ada Noah.. dengan muka yang serius banget sambil berdiri.)
Noah: Teman-teman, Tuhan Yesus itu dasyat .. Yesus naik sendiri ke sorga! (sambil peragain'naik' dengan tagan )Dia naik ke Sorga ga pake lift, ga pake tangga, ga pake wings.
Me: That's right...! thank you , Noah...!
Cerita ini mengingatkan saya lagi.. akan kepolosan anak2 , dan keyakinan'iman' mereka akan kuasa Yesus Kristus.Saya berkata iman karena keyakinan mereka besar kepada Yesus dengan pengetahuan /pengenalan tentang Yesus yang masih sedikit. Saat aku bertanya "kalian percaya gak..? kalau kita semua punya tempat di sorga?"
children: Iya.... percaya..
me: Oya..? tau dari mana? (pengen tau aja jawaban mereka)
children; Khan.. Tuhan Yesus sayang sama kita..
Me: Ok..ok..!makanya kita juga harus sayang dan taat sama Tuhan Yesus, juga  sama mami, papi, dedek, mis... dan semuanya..
kalo.. nggak..., nanti waktu Tuhan Yesus ngeliat bukuNya trus ga ada nama kamu dan  bilang ' Sory.. ga ada tempat buat kamu' .
Jadi kita harus percaya sama Tuhan Yesus dan baik sama semua orang..
haha... agak ngelebay... secara mukanya mereka serius2 banget... hiihiihihi                                                                                                                                                          

s.a.d

Aku tidak menyangka pertemuan dengan temanku hari ini akan  menyedihkan..
sangat....!
sangat....!
sangat....!


OMG;;;;;;;;;;; apa harus begini....?
!_!

boy.. jadi 'laki-laki'?

One day one of my students was weaering a band like a bride. She is Gwen, an she looks pretty.
Her friends come to me and said.. : Miss.. look  Gwen.. nice, They don't  know what is that, till Michi said: "Miss.. look Gwen kayak pengantin ya.."
Me: hmm... ya.. that's nice.. kayak pengantin..?, kalau pengantin kan harus ada laki- lakinya..?
Osbert:" iyaa.... harus ada laki-lakinya ya miss...", "Ivan..! kamu mau ga jadi laki-lakinya"
Ivan: ga..! sambil senyum malu-malu.
Me: look..! Ivan doesn't want Osbert.,..
Osbert: Miss aku aja, yang jadi laki-lakinya Gwen.." While smiling and looking at Gwen who is playing computer.
Me: Ha...h..? are you sure Osbert? you are still a boy..not a man yet... beside you have to ask her first...Gwen mau ga? kalo kamu jadi laki-laki nya..?
Then Osbert go to Gwen and said: Gwen kamu mau ga.. kalo aku jadi laki-laki nya..?..
Beugh... it's make me shock... It is a PROPOSAL...!!, I think he will not ask promptly..
Gwen  says nothing, just looks at Osbert.. and smile at him .....
While i am still in my surprising, there is Michi who are sitting next to  me and Osbert and listening to all our conversation.
Michi: Miss... nanti kalo Michi jadi pengantin aku mau yang jadi laki-laki nya Noah..
Me: Why Noah?
Michi: Because i like Noah..( Noah nya  ga dengar, lagi asyik main komputer,)
After finished play computer , Noah join with us to read the books.And when he is reading , I say to Noah,"Ehh.. Noah, kata Michi kalo  michi  jadi pengantin, ia mau laki-lakinya itu kamu loh.., kamu mau? "
Noah just look at me and said " nggak!"
me: Oh.. yahh... knp?
Noah: Cuma geleng-geleng kepala sambil senyum2 and continue  his reading.(wuih.... cool bgt)
Untung nya Michi  ga dengar, Michi lagi main computer...haha.. Kalo ngga, ntar dia malu lagi,uda di tolak  heheh

Itu kejadiannya Minggu lalu saat komputer time.
Dan kemarin waktu closing time when all friends hug each other ... suddenly Osbert come to me and said: Miss..aq bilang ke Gwen 'halo Gwen cantik..' sambil senyum-senyum..
me :says nothing just smiling at him and hug him..(... hmmm masih usaha aja.. jadi 'laki-laki'. :) 

Church...

 Greeting's topic in this week is about Church ( things at church). While Some children are writing their name on the white board for daily routine... then i ask them what about the day.
me: ok.. children.. today is Monday, right..?  so do you know that yesterday was..?
Children :  Sunday....!!
me: yuppp... that's right, so where did you go on Sunday...?
Children : Mall, just at home,playing...etc
me: Helloo... that Sunday..!how about Sunday school? where  did you go for  Sunday school? ( i just expect them to say 'Church'  )
marvin: Mall....!
me: Mall..? are you  sure?( i forgot that some Churches are placed in mall, hehehe) maklum scara HKBP tulenn
marvin: Yes.. miss.. that in mall...
me:.. ooo.. ok.. i see, your church is placed in mall, so can you tell me what things that you see  there?
children: piano, drum, tromped,..
me:  ya.. good..the others?  (again.. i just expect them to answer something like cross, bible, podium, and something holy things hehe)...ok.. how abt the activity?
Children: dancing, singing, puppet show..
me:  yess... that's right...it's very fun,  any others  ..? ( hope they can remember about praying)
Then i show them a picture of  a church with its inside.I tell them  about  my Church '  Kalau di gereja nya Miss Nita ya..paling keliatan itu cross, truss ada biblenya  sama pendetanya...di gereja kalian ga ada ya...?.So in this week we learn about Church. Church is a placed of Christian people for  gathering to  pray, sing and listen to the preach.
Thennn some students tell about their puppet show in their church.

Zaman modern sekarang ini emang sangat mempengaruhi pola pikir anak2 terhadap gereja. Semoga mereka  tetap menemukan nilai -nilai pokok kristiani dalam gerejanya.yaitu untuk memuji dan memuliakan Tuhan.



God bless....

let's swim k-1 'B'

Like other class K1 'b' also is very exciting at swimming day.
Ok..i can understand why those kids love so much that day because, they can swim with all friends , I know they can swim in pool which ios better and bigger one, But join with all friends is different, beside, they have no lesson but longer playing time..hehe, and everyone loves it.
In k1 banana, i get turn to help kids get shower after swim..and i love it.. cause we can chit-chat with  some interesting topics during the shower, such as, are you enjoy this swimming day? and why do you finish so fast? or did you get shower by your self at home? and who likes to help you at taking shower? etc.
Now , that 's William turn to take shower and come to me.. while showering his body  we  have chit-chat.
me: will..  look your body, bersih and putih banget.. kok bisa seh Will?
william: iya miss... sama kayak mami sama papi.
me: oohh... gitu..sama kayak miss nita juga dunk ya ? heheh(narsis)
will: diam aja sambil ngeliatin aq
me: Will... miss Nita putih kan?
will: Iya miss, tapi dikit aja
me: hhmm...yang bener will? pura2 sedih
will: iya putih miss.. tapi dikit ( berusaha menghibur tp tetap mengatakan yg sebenarnya)
me: hahahh ... iya deh Will...

Dyta and nawenni

So everyone is having fun today..

 

Even  had finished and tired they still have something to discuss...ya.. Kidsss

swimming day....

"yeee.... 3 days more we are going to swimming day...." children scream very excited. Yahh.. still 3 days more..  when we are counting down the day for due time to swim. Children waiting so much this day..  and when the date is erased unexpectedly by me.. they draw and write it again by their selves.

Wed/23/03/2011.
This is the day that most of children waiting for.Even Marvin who was sick yesterday ( my last post) still coming and ready for swimming.
When i came up to the k1'S' They have  been  ready with their swimsuit and its stuff..
me: Children.. are you ready to swim..?
children : yessss!
me: Marvin... are you sure, do you want to swim..?I think yesterday you were sick..?
marvin: yess miss.. it's ok..aq uda minum obat .. mami nya aq kan dokter..( sebenarnya seh ga ada hubungannya sama mami nya dokter, secara dokter kecantikan, tp seperti biasa.. 'marketing' hehe.
me; ok.. wait a minute ! ( i prepare my things because i get turn to swim inside with kids to take care them in the pool.)
When i'm busy with my activity i hear Marvin (sang provokator) whisper to boys " Eh.. temen-temen ntar kita siramin air ke ms. Nita ya.. biar basah.." Then i come back to the line and said: Friends .. sorry ya,, Ms,nita can't join with you for swimming cause i'm sick, i think i got headache"  pura- pura pusing pegangin kepala.
children:  No...mis... ikut naek dong...
Me: wow.... i'm dizzy, sorry...! ms. Wuri go up miss....! ( dengan kode)
then i change my cloth while they are going up.

Ten  minutes later  i have finished and ready to swim.(sebenarnya seh main cebar cebur aj haha)
Some my students who knows my attending... said  'ms. Nita bukannya dizzy ya tadi? kok sekarang datang?'
me: ya.... itu tadi, sekarang ms Nita datang mau bikin ombak yang sangat besar....!! ready....?
Dibantu sama guru yang lain kita bikin ombak di tempat air nya sambil nyanyi..'kapal ku miring' every one sings happily.
Anak2 aq seperti biasa luarbiasa iseng nya.. tetap aja menjalankan aksinya siram2an, n nyiram ke aq juga,tapi coz i'm ready.. so it's ok, then i come in to the water and join with them.
We are playing inside.. i ask them to find the blue ball, siapa yang paling banyak aku gendongin di air hahaha...and they looks so excited.

When they are enjoying their time to find the blue ball.. suddenly  i scream " help...help ! somebody help me please" how come ? haha just pretend that i'm sinking. Then some my students lift me up and said " miss.. i help you ,are you ok?"
me: oh... ya.. thank you2.
Karena merasa kesenangan di bantuin sama anak2 and melihat muka2 mereka,, i did again haha..sampai2 ada beberapa anak yang ga mau jauh2 dari aq buat jagain..

loh..? sekarang siapa yang jaga siapa yah...?
The last time i was sinking..  Noah help me and said :' Mis Nita , berdiri aja.."
me: ohh.. like this Noah? ( and i knell down)
Noah: No..mis... berdiri..!
me: (Stand up ), like this?  why?
noah; Iya ... supaya mis Nita ga tenggelam2 trus...
haha...  i'm laughing... ok 2 Noah, Thank you for your help , ms. ga tengelam2 lagi deh...
Noahnya senyum2  aja and pergi seperti sudah bebas dari tanggung jawab 'jagain' misnya... hahah.

Sekarang aq udah ga tenggelam lagi , gantian mereka yang seperti itu,,, pura2 tenggelam... tapi karena merasa hutang budi sama mereka, aq bantuin mereka seolah2 aq ga taw kalo itu cuman pura2 ..hehe.

Then.. every one  is  having  fun today..even Ivandi who are not swiming and just playing sand because a little bit feel unwell , still enjoying play sand with Michelle and Cathabell.

Thanks God everything is ok..no accident, and no 'sink' :P

Miliki hati seperti anak kecil

One thing that i love from children is their innocent. Looking at  their daily activity makes me so wonder for God's Almighty.
Caring for some one  who likes to 'disturb' you is something hard to do. But for children, it 's different..They can forget it and care for that person.
Ok i tell about disturb,, for some children disturb can be speak loudly next to your friend, jumping next to some one who just sitting. ect.
Yah... Vallerie always says to Marvin.. " Stop marvin....you disturb me !...stop talking,  you chating-chating all the time...you block me...and so on." :) .
 But  in next second they will play and  laugh together.

Vall coba dekatin Marvin

Marvin malu di tanyain sama valerie

When Marvin felling unwell on  22/03/2011 and I give him medicine. Marvin looks so sleepy after drank that medicine  , he refused to join with other to play. When he is lying on the mat , Vallerie come to him and said " Marvin.. are you ok?,, Marvin sick ya?" while patting his head, heheh.

And before closing time, I ask children to pray for Marvin so he will get well sooner. Michelle said to me: Miss...  Michelle  mau doain Marvin.., Tuhan Yesus ..berkatin Marvin Tuhan, berkatin dia supaya cepat sembuh Tuhan..amin.

pesan moral: Milikilah hati seperti hati anak kecil. maka kita akan bahagia.

Ayoo...cepat naik bus nya...

Kelebihan dari   K'1 Strwberry students  adalah  so talkative.. they like talking,chatting, and asking everything ..so confident... and also so energetic..:P
Maybe because of  we always give them time to communicate..every thing.like .the stories, opinion,,  and even the consequences of breaking the class rule..before giving the consequences we had to discuss  first.. so when they are getting consequence they do no need to ask : why miss... why i can't join with friends?" But they will take it.. and learn to responsible for everything that they had done. and they  will say.. "sorry miss,, because I... ",  "can i join with my  friend again?
( I respect so much everything abt  their stories and opinion.yahh walo kadang aq harus berusaha menahan ketawa akan jawaban2 lucu mereka..but trully  really appreciate their opinion.)

I don't know, do i have to be  happy or sad because of that? ..  happy ; because my students are so confident and having curiousness abt everything? and sad: coz sometimes..we  are needed to be creative  and think quick for their unexpected question and  need extract patient for their behavior.?..
ok..i tell the truth,  ya.I ever.. , ever felt both..:P, but  still i 'm so happy n proud of them..

and here they are when teacher needed to teach the student personally,
what's going on to the other student who don't get turn yet?..
of course.. they will chatting, playing,...even the teacher keep reminding them  to give attention for teacher
ok.. they will quiet ...just for a few  minutes..:P
and the next minutes they will be back to their topics.. hmm..

such in Mandarin time, they have to take turn to write in the white board..
then teacher ask them to ride on the bus.. so they have to wait their turn in the bus....

  

and after they finished with lauze, we will ask them to sit on the chair to do someth8ing such as; continue their art work, practice reading, practice writing.. and so on hehe...

 

Karena .. adalah sangat sulit buat mereka untuk  'diam' tanpa melakukan apa-apa.

jadi kadang kita manfaatin sifat mereka yang 'talkative ' juga seh hehehe

sorry kids................:P.

klick on klick at PDR and Art, k1 banana

aq tuh paling senang ngeliatin anak yang asyik bgt dengan kreatifitas ..seakan akan mereka berpikir..' aq bisa buat ini loh,,aq pasti bisa'

terus lah berkarya and explore dunia mu nak...tak ada seorang pun yg bisa menghalangi..

 

 

 

 

practice praying

 Dengan topic yang sama tentang berdoa..the teacher ask them to revise the pray' Doa Bapa kami'.
Di kelas K'1 Strwberry,, there  is no one can recite the pray.. haha.. it's ok!

but i'm so happy to look at them has willingness to pray at their own pray..
so at Bible activity teacher  didn't ask them to revise 'doa bapa kami' but  we ask them to pray..

Start from the teacher,,then teacher will choose one  student.. then she/ he will choose the other for the next turn.. and so on.. ok start from Ms. Wuri.. then Me n then i choose
Me: thank you Lord for your kindness to me please bless.. Elliot,marvin, Noah,Tobi gwen ..( and while i'm praying some students who are not mention yet the name.. they just say..their name like.. Michelle miss.. Olinnnn miss.. hahah)........ in Jesus name i pray... ok next i choose Noah..
Noah..: Just laughing.. jangan dulu deh...heheh
Michi: ya uda Michi dulu deh.. 'Lord Jesus thank You for grace now i want to sleep please bless.. elliot, olin..(and while praying..she is peeping and named all friends based on the position of seat.. heheh..ok.  good trying Michi..
then Michi. choose jordan.
Jordan; Thank you lord .,i love  mommy, daddy and alex Jonathan , in jesus name we pray Amen.. hehhe good trying Jordan. Then Jordan choose Elliot..who is hiding behind me..
Elliot: Elliot ga bisa miss...
me: just try Elliot.. ,belajar supaya bisa..But coz he insist say don't want to try . then i ask him to follow me' .. Elliot di bantuin sama miss.. ikutin miss nya ,  ok!t
Olin: Olin.. dulu ya miss.. Tuhan yesus., Olin maw tidur.. berkatin Olin sampai bangunn..berkati mami, papi, amin.
Noah:.. Miss.. Noah Dulu dehh..Tuhan Yesus Noah mau bobo, berkatin Jojo, berkatin Noah,  Amin. good Noah..
Michelle: Tuhan yesus, berkati mami,papi, justin, miss, dan teman2 Michelle.. zdari malam sampai besok tuhan yesus  Amin"
thax for praying to the teacher ya michelle.:) then Michelle choose Vallerie.
Vallerie: Thank you Lord for the beautiful day, bless vallerie mommy and daddy in jesus name we pray Amen.. Good  trying..Vall
Then gwen, osbert, tobi ,and florie are praying also but with help from teacher..
may God bless u kids..
hehehe

BAPA KAMI YANG DI SORGA

Topic Bible Time kita Minggu ini adalah 'Yesus mengajar murid2Nya berdoa' Bapa kami di Surga
I'm so wonder to see some of my students in K1'Banana can memorize that pray completely.
like William, irene  and Jovetta.

And at Bible Activity, the  teacher ask student to revise that pray..

Clement,Jessisca, k.Pitono, William, and Jayvyn

and here they are ..the boys turn to revise the pray..that is led by William..
Good job boys.. good trying..:)



And the girl is led by Irene..and they also are very good..
God bless u  all.. kids

family gathering

di padang rumput

lucu juga :)

hari ini banyak kejadian lucu di kelas..

start from this morning ,, Noah brings shells to school. he wants to show to his friends.
Noah: Miss..  aku bawa kerang.
( he gives to me)
me: woow.. nice shell Noah.. Do u know? u can decorate this and make some crafts.do u want to show to your friends?
noah: yes..! frends... look i bring shell. (sharing to his frends).. cuma di pegang aja ya .. ga di bawa pulang.. (berkali2) hehehe
Elliot: wow... shell.
 tapi yang lucu adalah.. waktu Michi.. mau nunjukin shell nya sama teman2.
Michi: this is shell, said shell, shell, said shell..shell,
sambil menyuruh teman nya menyentuh dan mengatakan 'shell'

Nahhh....  itu sama persis kalo saya lagi mengajar 'show and tell' aku selalu bilang ..'this is ... " then  i ask them to touch and said the name. hhahahah.. jadi malu.. kayak melihat diri sendiri....

Michelle & Olin
Akhir2 ini mereka lagi kompak..so satu sama lain mencoba saling menjaga perasaan.hohoo
Olin:  kamu kepalanya kecil ya..?(sambil memegang kepala Michelle)
Michelle : diam saja ( tumben)

Olin: merasa bersalah dan mencoba mengganti dengan kata yang lebih halus.." ehh... kamu kepalanya besar ya" hahahah..* makin benar ga seh?*
mungkin masih merasa kurang cocok..then she look at me..and i said " just said your head is good!"
hehehhe.... menahan ketawa.* sst..bingung juga..hahha

Elliot*
 he is trying to zip his bag, and it's not working. Then he ask me
Elliot: Miss... help pls.. tas Elliot broken nehh..ga bisa di tutup lagi
me: ok , let me try ( i make it work again) ahaa! magic!
Elliot: kok.. sama miss Nita bisa, ya ,sama Elliot ngga?
me: Maybe because i'm pretty  Ell,(narsis... hahah)
Elliot : haaa? (ga terima)
me: yaa.. i mean i'm pretty and you are handsome..mungkin tas kamu ga mau sama yang handsome mau nya sama yang cantik Ell...
Elliot: Semakin ga terima.... cantik..cantik... lebih cantik Michi...kok...
me: what....Ell? lebih cantik ?
Michi: yang secara ga sengaja juga mendengar " what do you say Elliot?"
Elliot: Ngga...ngga ada kok ( sambil malu2)

* marvin n  Jordan
While learning time, i commented the white board
me: Wooww.. look at our white board.. so clean..i like it..!
Jordan: yess! me too..I like it..
Marvin : me three (ga mau kalah.. )
Jordan: Me one hundred ( semakin ga mau kalah)..hahahahah
Me: ok... there is no me  3,  me 4 ya.. ! me too means that saya juga, , if u say me 3 means that saya tiga.
michi: iyaa.. ga ada me 3 yang ada itu I'm 3
Me: yesss.. that 's right  ! masih mencoba untuk tidak tertawa...

Nitha's fam *Uda Hendra,*

 

Keluarga uda yang no 2(Tauder Siamora/ R.br Siburian)

Hendra,Besron(tdk ada di foto),Julpa, Liska,Fitri dan Junadi

transition time

This is the k'1-s  condition at transition time, which everyone  are 'free' to learn while playing. Some of them like reading the books and reading the flash card.
Mauren who likes as a teacher is asking her friends to read the cards.

Vall,jordan,elliot,noah, florie

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

hello...kids.. what are doing there? read the books first then play komputer.
Ok.. i tell you something.. actually they are reading the book while waiting their turn to play computer.

jordan and marvin

klick on klick after PE time

 

 

'jaim' style by Noah

'free style' by ms wuri

Vall, me, michi by Marvin

"friends let's pray"

'friends are you ready to pray?' 'let's pray'
and here they are ,the kids are praying so seriously
Kids...keep praying  like this till you grow up

lead d pray

i'll stand by you

Oh, why you look so sad?
Tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now
Don't be ashamed to cry
Let me see you through
'Cause I've seen the dark side too

When the night falls on you
You don't know what to do
Nothin' you confess, could make me love you less

I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

So, if you're mad, get mad
Don't hold it all inside
Come on and talk to me now

Hey, what you got to hide?
I get angry too
Well I'm a lot like you

When you're standing at the crossroads
And don't know which path to choose
Let me come along
'Cause even if you're wrong

I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

Take me in, into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you

And when, when the night falls on you, baby
You're feelin' all alone
You won't be on your own

I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you
Take me in, into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you

I'll stand by you, I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you
Yeah

Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you

I'll stand by you
No, no, no, no, no
Take me in, into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you

I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing

I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
Far away and dreaming
I could spend my life in this sweet surrender
I could stay lost in this moment forever
Well, every moment spent with you
Is a moment I treasure

I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing

Lying close to you
Feeling your heart beating
And I'm wondering what you're dreaming
Wondering if it's me you're seeing
Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together
And I just wanna stay with you
In this moment forever, forever and ever

I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing

I don't wanna miss one smile
I don't wanna miss one kiss
Well, I just wanna be with you
Right here with you, just like this
I just wanna hold you close
Feel your heart so close to mine
And stay here in this moment
For all the rest of time

Don't wanna close my eyes
Don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
'Cause I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing

I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing

Don't wanna close my eyes
Don't wanna fall asleep, yeah
I don't wanna miss a thing

Iman berakar dalam Kasih Kristus

Kerap kali ,saya berpikir ketika mempunyai sesuatu, mendapatkan keinginan,atau memenangkan sesuatu pertandingan ,itu adalah karena usaha dan 'iman' saya.
Iman ku lah yang membuat semua ini berhasil.
Saya bekerja keras,dan  berkeyakinan bahwa itu akan berhasil. Dengan menegakkan kepala aku berkata pada diriku sendiri..'ok..just fine..aq berusaha dan punya iman'
Ditambah dari referensi buku2 yang pernah saya baca..bahwa kita akan mendapat keinginan kita dengan keyakinan dan usaha kita.

Saya terlihat sangat percaya diri dengan pendapat ku yang terkesan 'rohani' ini.Tanpa saya sadari semakin lama saya semakin menumbuhkembangkan bibit kesombongan  di dalam hati saya. Aku yang mengukur kebaikan Tuhan dengan berkat, fasilitas, atau pun dengan situasi menyenangkan lain nya merasa seolah olah saya lah pusat dan penentu hidup saya.

Hingga saya membaca dan mendengar pemberitaan firman Tuhan yang di
Roma 8:37 " Tetapi dalam semuanya itu kita lebih dari pada orang - orang yang menang oleh Dia yang mengasihi kita".Coba perhatikan 'lebih dari pada orang2 yang menang'
Selama ini saya yang sudah bangga dengan kemenangan'kecil'ku oleh karena menurutku aku sudah mempunyai iman. Tetapi pada ayat ini di katakan 'dalam semuanya itu' dan bahkan 'lebih dari pemenang' .Dan anehnya saya tidak menemukan adanya 'iman' yang  aku bangga2kan itu di bicarakan di sini.. tetapi semuanya adalah 'oleh Dia yang mengasihi kita'

...........semuanya karena Kasih Kristus.............

Semoga saya belum terlambat menyadari akan "Iman yang berakar di dalam Kasih Kristus"
Saya berdoa supaya saya semakin mengimani akan Kasih Kristus yang begitu lebarnya, tingginya, dalamnya dan  melampaui segala pengetahuan.'Ef.3:18-20'
Dan karena KasihNya Dia melakukan perbuatan2 yang besar yang tak terduga serta keajaiban2 yang tak terbilang banyaknya . 'Ayub 5:8'
Akan tetapi  Allah menunjukkan kasih Nya kepada kita, oleh karena Kristus telah mati untuk kita.'Rom 5:8'
Jadi bukan karena   hasil usaha  saya tapi poleh karena 'Kasih Karunia saya diselamatkan oleh iman' Ef.2 :8 (ohh ia ini adalah ayat sidi aq.)
Dalam nama Yesus aku berdoa 'amin'

jadi  sekali lagi ...........semuanya karena Kasih Kristus.............

Nb: kutipan kotbah tgl 20 Feb'2011 di GBI Api Kemuliaan Menara Era, Senen ,Jakpus .
by: Jimmy Kosasih

Tuhan Yesus memberkati.

my 'uncontrol' emotion inK-1 S

Every day,before i left my house i always pray 'Lord Jesus pls help me to give the best for all my students..give me patience,,n pls don't let me to be  angry  'again' '

my morning class was fine.. even there 's Denise who always tries my self-patience. But i can handle it.

 And here we are in my Noon class..K-1S class
 i'm so 'lucky' to get my class on 3rd floor which  almost every day i hear my students say " Ms.. i'm tired, ms..knp seh kls kita harus tinggi bgt" when we are going to upstairs
And my class also has more boys than girls..so we can imagine how attractive those kids.

But not  those things  that  make my emotion so bad today..
that is Marvin..yang hari ini sangat2 active..
today we make art papier-mache fruit which need lot of glue...And when we  did it .. just fine.. even the class looks so mass because of so many newspaper and glue on the floor!

 But the 'weird' thing starts after.. MArvin finished  and want to wash hands..  he asks some of his 'boy' friends to go out also..and i  don't know what thing that they have talked in toilet  but after they back to class Marvin is asking them to jump, scream ... n he also play with Tobi( a tiny child )  by pushing n running...Even i have just told to calm down because the other friends still busy with their working.However he looks more active than before,..hmmm....
 Berhubung emosi saya sudah mulai terpancing..saya duduk di depan mukanya marvin
dan bilang ' Marvin...! if  u still want to scream, run, jump,  and play you can do it outside,  go! with angry face.
and for ur information .. semarah2nya saya, saya tidak pernah menyuruh anak  keluar.. atw mengancam akan keluar..
but today i do it. I ask kid to stand out the classroom.then he misses
his mandarin class..di tambah lagi ceramah dari aku....!

Sedih.. seh.. bisa kelepasan emosi seperti itu
But i have to do it! for that time i have no more idea..to make him calm down..so  i ask him to go out of the class. for the 1st time he insists not to move his feet..but then after looked at my face..then he goes out.

I ask him to scream and jump there..but he just stay cool while looking at me. then i tell him to wait ,  me: ms.Nita needs to talk  with u, marvvin, so stay here!
marvin: ok.. miss, but i don't want here.
me: sorry.. but you have to..
..............10 minutes later..............
i come to him and ask to talk personally ( Lautze is teaching)
me: Marvin.. do you know why do I ask u to go out?
Marvin: yes.. miss
me: then why?
Marvin: because i'm running , jumping , screaming and not playing nicely in class.
(i just smile in my heart to listen to his speech.. looks so fun.. to see he can say it all..but i have to pretend that i'm still angry with him..so we just looks so serious, hhihi )
me: do you think that it is nice you did it in classroom?
marvin: no, miss!
me: but why you did it?
marvvin:......(diam saja..terus liatin mata saya....n lama2 nunduk)
me: marvin...! why?   do you know..you  disturb your friend who are still working, and can hurt  friends?...and you make me so sad today..( dengan muka..yang di sedih2in)
marvin: yes.. miss, i'm sorry..i promise  i will play nicely..( You see? he can say like that? so cute..)
me: I believe you can do it..(then i give him my hug...smile n say )Miss Nita sayang sama Marvin..'don't do it again ,, OK!)
Marvin: ok miss...then  he back to classroom
*note: Marvin sudah yang ke sekian kali janji seperti itu kepada saya.....
 then 'again' he only kid..of course it is the time for him to act like that
then 'again' that 's me who can't control my temper..actually  i just need to remind him about the rules 'again, again and again' till..he gets the point..n 'be the nice boy'

So,,, hari ini emang mancing emosi bgt.....=(

FWD: jam piket tubuh

JAM PIKET ORGAN TUBUH

LAMBUNG
Jam 07.00 - 09.00
Jam piket organ lambung sedang kuat, sebaiknya makan pagi untuk proses pembentukan energi tubuh sepanjang hari.
Minum jus atau ramuan sebaiknya sebelum sarapan pagi, perut masih kosong sehingga zat yang berguna segera terserap tubuh.

LIMPA
Jam 09.00 - 11.00
Jam piket organ limpa kuat, dalam mentransportasi cairan nutrisi untuk energi pertumbuhan. Bila pada jam-jam ini mengantuk, berarti fungsi limpa lemah.
Kurangi konsumsi gula, lemak,minyak dan protein hewani.

JANTUNG
Jam 11.00 - 13.00
Jam piket organ jantung kuat, harus istirahat, hindari panas dan olah fisik, ambisi dan emosi terutama pada penderita gangguan pembuluh darah .

HATI
Jam 13.00 - 15.00
Jam piket organ hati lemah, bila orang tidur, darah merah berkumpul dalam organ hati dan terjadi proses regenerasi sel-sel hati.
Apabila fungsi hati kuat maka tubuh kuat untuk menangkal semua penyakit.

PARU-PARU
Jam 15.00 - 17.00
Jam piket organ paru-paru lemah, diperlukan istirahat, tidur untuk proses pembuangan racun dan proses pembentukan energi paru-paru

GINJAL
Jam 17.00 - 19.00
Jam piket organ
ginjal kuat, sebaiknya digunakan untuk belajar karena terjadi proses pembentukan sumsum tulang dan otak serta kecerdasan.

LAMBUNG
Jam 19.00 - 21.00
Jam piket organ lambung lemah sebaiknya tidak mengkonsumsi makan yang sulit dicerna
atau lama dicerna atau lebih baik sudah berhenti makan

LIMPA
Jam 21.00 - 23.00
Jam piket organ limpa lemah, terjadi proses pembuangan racun dan proses regenerasi sel limpa. Sebaiknya istirahat sambil mendengarkan musik yang menenangkan jiwa, untuk meningkatkan imunitas.

JANTUNG

FWD : Rahasia & artinya

Apa Rahasia 90/10 ?
10% kehidupan dibuat oleh hal-hal yang terjadi terhadap kita.
90% kehidupan ditentukan oleh bagaimana kita bereaksi / memberi
respon.

Apa Artinya?
Kita sungguh-sungguh tidak dapat mengontrol 10% kejadian-kejadian yang
menimpa kita. Kita tidak dapat mencegah kerusakan mobil. Pesawat
mungkin terlambat, dan mengacaukan seluruh jadwal kita. Seorang supir
mungkin menyalip kita di tengah kemacetan lalu-lintas. Kita tidak
punya kontrol atas hal yang 10% ini.

Yang 90% lagi berbeda. Kita menentukan yang 90% !
Bagaimana? Dengan reaksi kita. Kita tidak dapat mengontrol lampu
merah, tapi dapat mengontrol reaksi kita. Jangan biarkan orang lain
mempermainkan kita, kita dapat mengendalikan
reaksi kita!

Mari lihat sebuah contoh.
Engkau sedang sarapan bersama keluarga. Adik perempuanmu menumpahkan
secangkir kopi ke kemeja kerja mu. Engkau tidak dapat mengendalikan
apa yang telah terjadi itu. Apa yang terjadi kemudian akan ditentukan
oleh bagaimana engkau bereaksi. Engkau mengumpat. Engkau dengan kasar
memarahi adik mu yang menumpahkan kopi. Dia menangis. Setelah itu,
engkau melihat ke istri mu, dan mengkritiknya karena telah menaruh
cangkir kopi terlalu dekat dengan tepi meja. Pertempuran kata-kata
singkat menyusul. Engkau naik pitam dan kemudian pergi mengganti
kemeja. Setelah itu engkau kembali dan melihat adik perempuan mu
sedang menghabiskan sarapan sambil menangis dan siap berangkat ke
sekolah. Dia ketinggalan bis sekolah. Istrimu harus segera berangkat
kerja. Engkau segera menuju mobil dan mengantar adik mu ke sekolah.
Karena engkau terlambat, engkau mengendarai mobil melewati batas
kecepatan maksimum. Setelah tertunda 15 menit karena harus membayar
tilang, engkau tiba di sekolah. Adikmu berlari masuk. Engkau
melanjutkan perjalanan, dan tiba di kantor terlambat 20 menit,
dan engkau baru sadar, bahwa tas kerjamu tertinggal. Hari-mu begitu
buruk. Engkau ingin segera pulang. Ketika engkau pulang, engkau
menemukan ada hambatan dalam hubungan dengan istri dan adikmu. Kenapa?
Karena reaksimu pagi tadi.

Kenapa hari mu buruk?
a) Karena secangkir kopi yang tumpah?
b) Kecerobohan adikmu?
c) Polisi yang menilang?
d) Karena dirimu sendiri?
Jawaban-nya adalah D. Engkau tidak dapat mengendalikan tumpahnya kopi
itu. Bagaimana reaksi-mu 5 detik kemudian itu, yang menyebabkan hari
mu menjadi buruk.

Ini yang mungkin terjadi jika engkau bereaksi dengan cara yang
berbeda. Kopi tumpah di kemejamu. Adikmu sudah siap menangis. Engkau
dengan lembut berkata "Tidak apa-apa sayang, lain kali kamu lebih
hati-hati ya". Engkau pergi mengganti kemejamu dan dan tidak lupa
mengambil tas kerjamu. Engkau kembali dan melihat adikmu sedang naik
ke dalam bus sekolah. Istrimu menciummu sebelum engkau berangkat
kerja. Engkau tiba di kantor 5 menit lebih awal, dan dengan riang
menyalami para karyawan. Atasanmu berkomentar tentang bagimana
baiknya hari ini buat mu.

Lihat perbedaannya. Dua skenario yang berbeda. Keduanya dimulai dari
hal yang sama, tapi berakhir dengan berbeda. Kenapa? Karena REAKSI
kita. Sungguh kita tidak dapat mengontrol 10% hal-hal yang terjadi.
Tapi yang 90% lagi ditentukan oleh reaksi kita.

Sumber: Tulisan Robert T. Kiyosaki, "Guide to Investing"
(edisi bahasa Indonesia sudah diterbitkan oleh Penerbit Gramedia,
Jakarta 2002).

Ahaa..do u know where did i take this pic?

Yuppp... anda bener seekali.. ini adalah salah satu gereja Katholik di medan. 'Valengkani'
Waktu pulang ke  Medan.. bulan juni 2010,  Ada teman baik saya yang mengajak ke sana.. katanya bagus...
n ternyata benar..Gereja bagus...unik..n waw.. so nice..
gerejanya memiliki dua pintu masuk yang berbentuk tangga melingkar menuju tempat kebaktian di atas...
yang uniknya di kedua sisi tangga tersebut ada lukisan tentang penciptaan..

so cool...